I wanted to share this rule and pet's reasoning with you for two reasons. The Importance of WHY Firstly, it shows the importance of psychology behind everything you do in BDSM. Sure, it's easy for a [...]
Punishment involves the withholding of pleasure from the submissive; other forms of "punishment/discipline", such as caning, are actually a pleasure for the submissive. Withholding is a better motivator for correcting behaviour. ~ Sir Richard
Punishment Guide Skip to Rules & Ideas Oooh, punishment! It is possibly the most exciting, yet quite misunderstood aspect of power exchange relationships. Before getting into rules and ideas, it’s important to highlight what this tactic actually is and when [...]
My favorite is using random chance games for choosing reward or punishment. Either slips of paper in a bowl to choose from, spinning a wheel, rolling the dice, etc. Dice are fun, because you can add additional variables. Roll a two and you are to be in chastity for a week.
The current ritual I currently like is my sub using obedience. Now this comes in multiple parts. Although it's an app it is now a big part of our dynamic. Beforehand I had a number of tasks for my submissive to do daily and weekly, but she would either forget or just not do them because I wasn't there to hold her accountable.
Punishment involves the withholding of pleasure from the submissive; other forms of "punishment/discipline", such as caning, are actually a pleasure for the submissive. Withholding is a better motivator for correcting behaviour. ~ Sir Richard
Punishment involves the withholding of pleasure from the submissive; other forms of "punishment/discipline", such as caning, are actually a pleasure for the submissive. Withholding is a better motivator for correcting behaviour. ~ Sir Richard
If I do not wake up and present myself first thing for at least 10 wacks with a paddle or similar device on a daily basis I will be punished. This appeals to me because I get to start the day in the right frame of mind.
my Daddy hates when the gas in the car gets too low, and i am the type that will run it down to the last drop, so one of our different rules is that i am not allowed to run the vehicles below a quarter tank of gas, otherwise the punishment is a caning, and i hate the cane.
I would find detailed house cleaning and cooking rules to be agreed to and if any are not followed in detail daily a punishment would put in place. Once the daily check list is checked, depending on the number of failed rules, the punishment would be in place: