This site was designed to give you ideas and inspiration for adding rules to your BDSM dynamic.

Rules give your power exchange structure and help maintain your roles.

You could say rules are a fetish for some. Writing them, negotiating, having them enforced, seeing them on paper. Ooh yeah!

Every relationship will look different. That’s why we wanted to create a space to provide rule ideas and for like minded people to share their BDSM rules, whilst getting inspiration from others.

How this site works

The site is broken up into topics, each with rule ideas.

Members (free, always) – access your list of liked rules any time. Just click the link “My Saved Rules” at the top of the site.

To save a rule click the black heart symbol ♥

Enjoy, stay safe and happy kinking!

~ Liliana ~