BDSM Rules and Ideas for Master/slave Dynamics

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What is a Master/slave Relationship?

In BDSM, a Master/slave (M/s) relationship is a beautiful, cherished connection where one person transfers authority and power to the other. Master leads and slave obeys and follows. Such a lifestyle is founded on good communication, respect and earned trust.

The extent to which control is given will depend on the parties involved. Although, it can be controversial as to whether one may have limits and still refer to themselves as M/s. Regardless, especially in the beginning, it’s strongly advisable to set limits and boundaries and to communicate in detail about all issues.

Every dynamic will look different, depending on the needs and wants of those involved. Some may be only service oriented, without any sexual connection or kink activities whilst others may prefer more of a guidance type role, whether part time or 24/7.

Whatever your preferences, here are some rules and ideas you may like to consider.

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How this works?

Short and Sweet Master/slave BDSM Rule Ideas

Here are some some quick rule ideas which have been submitted by others. If no name or title is mentioned, the person wished to remain anonymous.

Some are written in a formal way so you can simply add them to your contract or agreement if you have one. If not, use them for ideas any way you wish.

Sir’s responsibilities

Master must be a Teacher, Protector and Mentor to slave /sub.

~ Master Eros

Governing principles

Protect the Property
Obey without Hesitation
Be Transparent

Live, Laugh, Love: Trust, Respect, Care

~ Master Shack

Master always has the last word

I believe in one rule, what I say is the last word! And any time we have lifestyle guest then everything is done in high protocol!

~ Master BJ

Make Master proud

I use posture and dress codes, with hidden (or not) toys, clamps, etc.

It shows the pride My slave girl has to be her own self and serving me.

~ Meester W

slave’s daily task schedule

Our favorite rule is that the submissive (lillepusen) is to obey every single task on the “daily task schedule” to the best of her abilities.

She will also send a nude photo (or if instructed in clothes) while preforming her duties.

She is also to greet her Master in a sitting posture, naked, in the hallway upon His arrival.

On failure to do so, or not met her tasks, she will be severely punished, and Master chooses how, where and the duration of the punishment.

~ Master Pravum and submissive lillepusen

Caring for our children

Rule: His submissive will care for her/Their children above all else. She will see to their immediate needs and do her best to raise them to be kind, courteous and well mannered, as well as to be able to advocate for themselves in a respectful manner.

Why: Her duties and successes as a mother reflect not only upon her, but also upon her Master whom she takes pleasure in serving.

Spanking rule

Anytime His submissive receives a swat to her ass she is to thank her Master and ask if she may have another please.

Since she is a masochist and enjoys the swats and spankings he gives, she is reminded of her place by having to express gratitude and request another every time.

A rule for planning and control

I am restricted to monthly requests in writing for personal hygiene items, whatever I may need for the month.

Pushes me to plan ahead and reminds me that I am fully owned, Master is in control.

Anticipatory service

Master’s expectations to be realistic so that slave can mostly achieve her duties or tasks.

Important that slave is happy.

slave’s happiness

Have times where slave can suggest or choose something for both Master and sub to do that she really wants and enjoys.

Again, it is important for the submissive to be happy.

My rule that supersedes all others

Rule 1 – The slave, as my property, is to take care of my property physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally at all times so as to be ready to serve at all times.

This rule supersedes all other instructions and rules, even those given by the Master.

~ DaSade

slave’s position at home

At home, slave is always to be naked or one layer of clothing and some form of collar.

Why: slave always knows her position.

Offer yourself

When I come home slave must always kneel before me and offer herself to me.

Why: shows obedience and devotion.

Readiness for Master

Slave must always be clean and shaved and pleasant smelling – perfumed.

Why: shows readiness for her Master to take her whenever he needs to or wants her.

Spicing up service

Master may expect sub to serve in public or private, alone or in front of others where such service is socially acceptable.

The appeal comes from the ability to spice things a little more than usual. To observe how far a sub will go to serve me, even in an indirect manner.

~ Michael

Respect & jokes

MASTER MUST respect his sub. It’s nonsense the idea only the sub must respect her Dominant.

Jokes, sometimes, are more handy than shouts.

SDe, Dom