Amount of Authority

Sure, there are some Mistresses who require complete obedience. Their only rule is “do what I say, when I say”. And there are a lot of men who crave to provide such devoted, unconditional obedience and service. BUT, this strict power exchange is not a type of dynamic you want to start off with. Even if you are experienced in kink and BDSM, your version of a “strict” Mistress may seem quite vanilla to some … or vice versa.

Amount of Authority

If handing over full authority to your Mistress (a total power exchange) is your goal, don’t rush it. Be sure to talk over your expectations first and set down limits. Even if you don’t think you want any limits, start with an inclusive negotiation. This means, include in your arrangement only those kinks, activities and attitudes which you DO want.

Amount of Authority

Make everything else off limits. Then gradually broaden your contract from there. You may find you have limits after all and no prudent “Mistress” would ever frown upon you for that.