Sir is NOT my therapist. I will not put the responsibility of my emotions in the hands of my Sir. I acknowledge it is MY responsibility – this means I realize he cannot make my anxiety go away or cure my depression. Even if he was a qualified therapist, it would be unethical for him to treat me.
As my Dominant, he can for example make sure I make and keep appointments to a therapist, ensure that I follow recommended treatments, structure my day for me, set punishments for comfort eating and/or command me to research other resources and tools to help. He cannot cure me and I cannot have that expectation.