Liliana - BDSM Rules

1. Exchange letters once a while to express how much you appreciate each other (Why: my partner is the biggest introvert and loves writing). 2. Remind your partner your love for them outside the dynamic if you’re in a romantic relationship (Why: sometimes getting lost in the dynamic triggers insecurities on a romantic level).

Once in a while my daddy makes me sleep next to him with my wrists tied together (usually with a tie or ribbon) but something comfortable...and one ankle tied to the bed with lock and key (key in this particular game is always kept in drawer within reach in case of any emergency. This way all night long my daddy can have his way with me.

I have found having a paper, or readable copy, of rules, rewards, punishments, and limits to be helpful. I have tried relationships without one before and can say with all honesty that having it all written down makes it harder to forget things in the heat of the moment.

A big thing I like to do is food rewards. Everyone loves food. So if I follow the rules my dominant has set, for the week, I get to pick a place to eat during pay week.

My submissive is to set out my work attire (shirt, tie, pants, shoes) every evening for the next morning. Forgetting to do so results in being woken up (I’m up very early) with a spanking and then apologizing with her mouth.

1. we only play with other people together and never one on one. 2. keep each other informed if chatting with others online. 3. no other male dominants. Jace Mack

One ritual I always keep in my relationships is making sure I give the sub a day (Thursday 18:00 - 20:00) when she is free to say whatever she wants (to be improved) in our lifestyle to make sure were both happy and satisfied and this also allows me to improve as a dom.

One ritual I insist on (before quarantine was a thing) is cuddle time. It is a major part of after care for me is just being held. Gives me time to decompress. However cuddling is also a major thing for my partners.

1) The sub should not speak unless specifically given the opportunity to do so 2) The sub cannot look into my eyes in public They are rules that contradict the normal social behavior and respecting them is a clear sign of accepting the relationship and the balance of power. ~ Kristoff Lustfulsinner