Arriving Ritual
she places her head upon my Heart.
I ask: “ what do you bring to this Bond?”
she states clearly:
“ i bring my Loyalty
i bring my Obedience
i bring my Virtues
i bring my Energy”
I then kiss her forehead
and the arrival is completed.
Submitted by: MrD in KC aka MrDirecther
What a lovely way to begin the day.
Arriving rituals are very personal to the Dominant and submissive.
I thought this one was very precious to share.
The purpose of having an arriving ritual is to quickly establish your power exchange mindset.
When can you use submissive arriving rituals?
- when the Dominant arrives home;
- when you wake up in the morning and see each other for the first time;
- if long distance, by text, voicemail, video or phone call;
- in preparation for a scene.
You don’t need a mantra to go along with your ritual, although it does help to set the intention for your time together.
Other common protocols for arriving rituals
- kneeling at the front door in a specified position;
- kissing the dominant’s cheek, mouth, hand, boots or any other part of their body;
- crawling to the Dominant;
- waiting in position until released.
Welcoming ceremony by Sndteck, Dominant
My welcoming ceremony was a candle light room, wrist and ankle bonds and as the submissive put on each one she pledged how she would serve me.
My response was to guide her, respect her as my submissive and to let her grow as to how to serve me.
Mantra ritual by Dougritein, slave
i bring out my full attention
i bring out my full virtue and understanding .
i bring out full obedience to serve with complete loyalty and respect.
i bring total enduring faith and love of my mistress to show me the ways of genuine BDSM and servitude too become the best BDSMslave and give full thanks for your gratitude in helping me to serve.
i bring thanks for punishment at all times.
This i give as i kiss her feet and i lay hands and face down .
Arriving ritual by Jennynotnow, submissive
When I arrive at our designated meeting place, I must be braless, pantyless and well lubed. I must be wearing my collar, cuffs and a smile!
If I have had a bad day, I am allowed to tell him After arrival rituals. He knows me so he knows when my smile is forced. But he knows I smile to please him and he takes care of me afterwards. It’s the best feeling.
Alldevo’s arrival ritual
My arrival ritual is as follows: i ring the bell in the hall of the building and announce myself. Then my Mistress leaves the front door of Her apartment ajar and I know that I have to go to the hobby room / dressing room. There i have to undress completely, attach my collar, wrist and ankle straps and then wait on my hands and knees at the door of the living room. i knock on the door and sometimes, i have to wait a pretty long time until i am allowed to crawl up to the feet of my Dominant. Usually She receives me alone, but sometimes there are also other people present whom i, if She wishes, must also serve.
Do you have specific actions when you see each other after being apart for a period of time?
I would love to hear them! Please share them in the comments below.
The arriving ritual that my submissive employs is:-
On arrival at my home,
She will knock on my door, using our prearranged pattern, then stand back, with head bowed and hands by her side.
Once inside and the door closed; she will pull her hair away from her neck, and I will hold her firmly in my arms and kiss her neck, to welcome her, telling her that she is now safe and secure, to freely maintain and expand her submission to me, in the knowledge that Sir will cherish her and treat her firmly, but fairly.
She will wait until I lift her chin, and then kiss me deeply on the lips, telling me that she has prepared her body, to serve and submit and for Sir to use as he feels fit.
(On the occasions where she has not been able to thus prepare herself, she will ask Sir, to permit her use of the bathroom, and supervise her ablutions.)
In either event; she will ask for permission to strip naked, that she is available for Sir’s inspection, examination and approval. She will fold and place all clothing neatly or place in laundry hamper to be cleansed.
Her knickers, she will give to Sir for examination and retention, if I so desire.
Once approved, she will ask Sir if there is anything that Sir requires immediately? (Food, drink or sexual relief), before sitting cross legged at Sir’s feet and asking permission to relay her news, experiences and to confess any lapses in service to Sir, since our last convocation.
It took Sir longer to write the foregoing, than it takes her to relax and get into her sub space, such is her diligence to Sir’s instructions and willingness to submit.
We have been In our D/s relationship, for 6 yrs, and thus are both comfortable with this routine.
I hope that my experiences may be helpful to others.
Thankyou again Mistress for sharing love all of then
I like to go mall braless, pantyless and well lubed. I am very happy with my self. I love arriving rituals always.
When I arrive at her home she either sits in a swivel chair or her bed at which time I kneel in front of her and place my head in her lap while wrapping my arms around her waist and depending on our communication prior to my arrival, she either asks me questions such as what I did while out without her, is everything ok with my family.
I generally am free to express thoughts or any plans that I would like her to be part of with me, then depending on if we are staying in or going out.
I either strip to my underwear and a T-shirt.
We haven’t gotten to a point where strict protocols are in place, my arrival is still a very fluid thing.
The slave arrives dressed modestly and with only a small bag. She kneels and asked the same as what you described, except she crosses both arms in front with head bowed. The slave answers that they bring Me their heart, soul, mind, body, and all worldly possessions and willingly give them to Me for the opportunity to be My slave. Upon entering, they disrobe and lay their forehead on My outstretched hand. I then tell them to rise for induction.