BDSM Rule for Submissive's Arriving Ritual

Arriving Ritual

she places her head upon my Heart.
I ask: “ what do you bring to this Bond?”
she states clearly:

“ i bring my Loyalty
i bring my Obedience
i bring my Virtues
i bring my Energy”

I then kiss her forehead
and the arrival is completed.

Submitted by: MrD in KC aka MrDirecther

What a lovely way to begin the day.

Arriving rituals are very personal to the Dominant and submissive.

I thought this one was very precious to share.

The purpose of having an arriving ritual is to quickly establish your power exchange mindset.

When can you use submissive arriving rituals?

  • when the Dominant arrives home;
  • when you wake up in the morning and see each other for the first time;
  • if long distance, by text, voicemail, video or phone call;
  • in preparation for a scene.

You don’t need a mantra to go along with your ritual, although it does help to set the intention for your time together.

Other common protocols for arriving rituals

  • kneeling at the front door in a specified position;
  • kissing the dominant’s cheek, mouth, hand, boots or any other part of their body;
  • crawling to the Dominant;
  • waiting in position until released.

Welcoming ceremony by Sndteck, Dominant

My welcoming ceremony was a candle light room, wrist and ankle bonds and as the submissive put on each one she pledged how she would serve me.

My response was to guide her, respect her as my submissive and to let her grow as to how to serve me.

Mantra ritual by Dougritein, slave

i bring out my full attention

i bring out my full virtue and understanding .

i bring out full obedience to serve with complete loyalty and respect.

i bring total enduring faith and love of my mistress to show me the ways of genuine BDSM and servitude too become the best BDSMslave and give full thanks for your gratitude in helping me to serve.

i bring thanks for punishment at all times.

This i give as i kiss her feet and i lay hands and face down .

Arriving ritual by Jennynotnow, submissive

When I arrive at our designated meeting place, I must be braless, pantyless and well lubed. I must be wearing my collar, cuffs and a smile!

If I have had a bad day, I am allowed to tell him After arrival rituals. He knows me so he knows when my smile is forced. But he knows I smile to please him and he takes care of me afterwards. It’s the best feeling.

Alldevo’s arrival ritual

My arrival ritual is as follows: i ring the bell in the hall of the building and announce myself. Then my Mistress leaves the front door of Her apartment ajar and I know that I have to go to the hobby room / dressing room.  There i have to undress completely,  attach my collar, wrist and ankle straps and then wait on my hands and knees at the door of the living room. i knock on the door and sometimes, i have to wait a pretty long time until i am allowed to crawl up to the feet of my Dominant.  Usually She receives me alone, but sometimes there are also other people present whom i, if She wishes, must also serve.

Do you have specific actions when you see each other after being apart for a period of time?

I would love to hear them! Please share them in the comments below.

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