One of my favorite rules is that whenever I say something negative about myself, I have to come back with 5 positive things about myself. I struggle with bad self-image so Daddy helps me with that.
With my current Dom, W/we practice more self autonomy. It makes the times He pulls the Dom card more special. He mostly corrects my life outlook and *stinking thinking*.
Sir is NOT my therapist. I will not put the responsibility of my emotions in the hands of my Sir. I acknowledge it is MY responsibility - this means I realize he cannot make my anxiety go away or cure my depression. Even if he was a qualified therapist, it would be unethical for him to treat me. As my Dominant, he can for example make sure I make and keep appointments to a therapist, ensure that I follow recommended treatments, structure my day for me, set punishments for comfort eating and/or command me to research other resources and tools to help. He cannot cure me and I cannot have that expectation. ~ Liliana
Skip to all rule ideas If you are struggling with anxiety, depression or other mental health challenges you are certainly not alone. I was hesitant in mentioning my struggles with anxiety and stress, thinking somehow that it made me weak (or imperfect) [...]
Of all the sensual BDSM things that my kitten & I do together, my absolute favorite moment is a mostly innocent act. Every night , after dinner is cleaned up and children are settled, my kitten will join me in our "clubhouse". Most of the time I'll command her to remove her clothes and take a slave position of my choosing. She will remain in this position, with her intimate parts exposed to me, until released.
The submissive will research and stay abreast of opportunities for taking a trip, going to events (kinky or vanilla) and hosting/attending social gatherings post Covid-19 restrictions. The Dominant shall be briefed as and when such information comes to light. This is important for mental health (having something to look forward to).
The submissive shall reach out to family or friends at least twice per week via video conference or phone call. In particular, the submissive shall focus on those who are in isolation.
The submissive will ensure he always dresses in a manner pleasing to the Dominant. The Dominant may request photos on demand at any time and may stipulate the body area or part to be photographed. Subject to the submissive’s work commitments, the submissive must promptly comply with such a command, by taking a sexy, cheeky, funny or creative photo of himself or the area stipulated in the command and sending same to the Dominant within 20 minutes.
The submissive is limited to watching news programs or otherwise consuming any news content to only half an hour per day. This is to keep the submissive’s anxiety at bay whilst staying informed about current events.
The submissive is required to masturbate and bring herself to climax at least three times per week. Evidence in the form of a photo or video shall be forwarded to the Dominant within one hour of orgasm.