Quarantine BDSM Rule Ideas by BiggRick

Here is the text version of BiggRick’s Long Distance BDSM Rules

In reading/learning this new lifestyle (I’m a latent Dom). Yesterday I gave my sub ground rules along with a punishment.

  • She was to make a video using a sex chair she has. I told her she needed to use it no less than 10 minutes.
  • She was told to show me at least three pieces of lingerie. She would send photos and I would decide which one to wear. The other guideline was for her not to wear socks as I had seen her do previously.
  • During that time she was not allowed to orgasm, only after the 10 or more minutes would she be able to orgasm!

The other guideline (the main guideline) was she was to call me Sir. She followed most of the rules as she was making a video until she did not address me as she was told!

Her punishment was there would be no contact for the rest of the day and not until I contacted her the next day. I had given her those guidelines and the reasons for the punishment as we are not and were not together and using an app to communicate (social distancing). I used my main phrase “DO YOU UNDERSTAND”. She did and was a good girl by waiting for me to contact her.

My sub likes when I use that phrase and when I call her a good girl (name as a reward).

As we do not live with or near each other, that to me was an adequate punishment. I am enjoying these new use of guidelines and punishment system and look forward to drawing up a contract outlining this and other guidelines/punishments.

~ BiggRick